The view date ‘your own kind' is one that is embraced by majority of the world on both a conscious and subconscious level.
For many, such a view logically makes sense because marrying ‘your own kind' would mean there would be no culture clashes, or mismatches in the area of beliefs. Others argue with the fact that two people in a relationship with different backgrounds could ensure immense personal developments for both parties through the simple exchange of perspectives.
The truth is intimate relationships between a man and a woman should be founded via a very simple formula.
STAGE 1 |
STAGE 2 |
STAGE 3 |
STAGE 4 |
STAGE 5 |
STAGE 6 |
Acquaintance |
Friend |
Good friend |
Boy-friend/ girl-friend |
Fiancé |
Husband/ wife |
By the fifth stage both parties should be able to answer yes to both of the questions below:
“Can this person make me truly happy?”
“Can I truly make this person happy?”
Like with everything else a relationship decision based solely on race, backgrounds and beliefs is extremely limited.
This is free advice, do what you want with it. |