And likewise there are many girls that believe sex is the only way to hold unto their man.

But despite what many may say or think sex by itself can never be an expression of love.

In fact if done with a carefree heart can be no different from watching a DVD or eating fried chicken. In other words sex can be turned into an act that fulfils a momentary desire.

The ultimate expression of love between a man and a woman is marriage. Because marriage in its purest form represents friendship, truelove, and the willingness to share every aspect of each other's lives. 

Like sex the purpose of marriage in many cases has been abused and rendered meaningless.

But a girl or a woman is more likely to find the guy of her dreams if she aims only to have sex after marriage simply because, the wrong guy won't wait and the right guy will.

And a guy is more likely to find true happiness and fulfilment if he chooses to have sex only until he's married simply because, the right girl will respect that and the wrong girl won't.

If what has been stated sounds corny, and impractical then take a second to ponder over this:

In a marriage what is left when the woman and the man loose the ability to have sex?

If you remember only one thing remember this: “ Sex and marriage are useless without love. And a man/woman can not truly love another person until he/she loves him/ herself.”  

This is free advice, do what you want with it.